Living Mindfully

Litter Lout

Litter Lout (Photo credit: Smabs Sputzer)

I think most of us, most of the time, don’t think about what we’re doing. I think we live our lives on inertia, nudged by forces we’re not even aware of in directions whose validity we never question. Most of what we do is done on autopilot, a series of habits we’re not even aware we have. We assume that however we’re doing things right now is the only way it can possibly work. Every day, I look around the world and want to pull my hair out, wondering how people can miss what seems so obvious to me.

How, for instance, did we get brainwashed into thinking we have to buy name brand laundry detergents and bathroom cleaners, when you can make both in less than half an hour from completely natural ingredients–and they work just as well (and sometimes better)?

How can a family half our size, who spends most of their day away from home, generate 2-3 times as much trash as we do?

Why do people sit in parking lots and run their cars for a quarter of an hour at school pickup or the grocery store? Do they not understand how much poison they’re spewing into the air–much less how much money they’re burning? Or do they just not care? Sure, it’s hot–find a shady spot to wait outside the car. It’s inconvenient, but it’s only an inconvenience.

What are people thinking when they toss fast food bags, plastic bottles, and cigarette butts out their car windows? I mean really–what are they thinking? Where do they think all that trash is going to end up?

Why do people who see the wisdom of a chemical-free diet not recognize the inherent philosophical conflict of using pharmaceuticals to shut down their reproductive systems, as if that is the only, or even the best, way to plan families?

These sorts of frustrations underscore how very differently I live than most of the people in America. It’s tempting–very tempting–for me to wag my finger self-righteously at everyone else. But I know I’m guilty, too. Driving my kids to their three separate schools, with their three separate schedules, causes me to put 40 miles on my van every Tuesday, even though none of the schools are more than 5 miles from my house. Nobody’s forcing me to put Nicholas in preschool. And if I care enough, I can try to find someone to carpool with.

How often do we take time to look critically at our own lives and identify places that could or should be adjusted? We work very hard to protect the status quo, because we can’t imagine what we would do if we had to change our habits. And yet things happen, and we do have to change. The car breaks down, and you figure out how to make do without it. Prices go up, and you adjust your purchasing habits accordingly. We always think we can’t change, but we can. We just don’t think.

I’ve been reciting this like a mantra lately: doing religious writing is like a nonstop examination of conscience. And I’m so thankful. I’m never, ever comfortable–I’m always squirming–but it means I’m also living mindfully. And that has to be a good thing.

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4 thoughts on “Living Mindfully

  1. I hear ya, when I was a kid I walked to school and back, now it is like kids expect parents to be shaffers, and this throwing stuff out their windows, touche’ I am constantly picking up bottles and wraps, including fast food bags and wraps off the end of my yard. I leave the aluminum cans because there is this poor guy who comes by regularly to collect them.

  2. Yes, yes, YES! I’m a eco-living nut, so I get on my high horse about that from time to time, right up to when I realize I’m guilty of an offense myself (which is about every day). I agree that most of us fail to live deliberately most of the time, but I’m also convinced that many people are just plain selfish, spoiled and/or lazy. There’s no other reason for trash thrown out a window, for instance. My big thing these days is packaging: I’m trying to buy whole foods and products that do not need to be overly processed or packaged, which is a challenge for sure. My sister is trying the whole locavore thing, buying at least half her food for her family within 20 miles of her house. (I would like to try this, but my preteen boys eat SO MUCH. I’d go broke.)

    • I’d like to eat organic and local, but I can’t figure out how people make the math work. It really is soooooo expensive. Maybe if it’s just two or three people, you could make it work, but I’m already paying such a major chunk of my budget for groceries, I can’t imagine nearly doubling it (I haven’t done complete math, but I’ve done enough to know it vastly, vastly increases the cost).

  3. The only way we eat organic is by growing our limited veggies ourselves. This year I’ve saved a lot by pickling and making some killer salsa, both of which keep well. Now that it’s cooler, I’m making kimchi and will do sauerkraut soon, But I have to use store bought veggies for these last two because I don’t grow the veggies myself.

    As far as the other stuff goes, we keep a trash bag in our car and dispose of it in our own trash can. And having a very limited budget keeps us from sitting with our engine running anywhere. We also have a list of places we need to go and actually have certain days when we don’t go out at all to save gas. But we don’t have a gazillion kids at home to deal with and plan around. So, if it’s any comfort, living eco-friendly seems to get better with age.

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