Stained Glass, A Strong-Willed Breakthrough, and Learning to ride a bike in a week (theoretically)

It’s been a pretty intense week, with Julianna in iCanBike camp in a nearby town. I’ve had to pull her and Nicholas from school early every day so we could make the half-hour drive to the camp. They begin with this gizmo, which is sort of barrel-shaped, so it’s narrower and less stable than training…

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On Julianna, at the end of Grade 2

Every so often, I like to share some of Julianna’s school work and progress. I need to be clear: this is not a total picture of Down syndrome. It’s not even a total picture of “what a person with Down syndrome can do in the second grade.” There’s a vast range of ability among people with…

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Which Bone Is The Extra Chromosome In?

“Which bone is the extra chromosome in?” This is the question I was called upon to answer last night. It was 7:43p.m., and my day had been a nonstop madhouse, beginning with an 8:30 a.m. flute rehearsal and culminating in a mad rush from 4:30-8p.m. to get Julianna to and from dance, everyone fed, dishes…

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You should like my daughter because she’s amazing, not because of her special need (reblog)

Why is it so newsworthy when a kid with DS gets elected prom king?

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Words Matter (a primer on disability language)

First, I am fully aware that many people are going to look at this as splitting hairs. I did, until my daughter came along. How do you refer to a person with a disability? If you are like most people, you slap a label in front of the name: Julianna is a “Downs child” or…

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7 things you can learn at a kickoff event for Down Syndrome

1. People-first language. When we were new to the world of disability, we thought the whole “person with Down syndrome” structure was cumbersome; it was so much easier to say “Down’s kid.” We thought it was PC nonsense. But I’ve changed my mind, and you should too. Here’s why: you don’t walk around labeling other people…

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