Are you ready for Lent? (book giveaway!)

Guess what? Lent is less than four weeks away.

I know, probably most of you are sending die, evil woman, die! looks at your computer screen right now. I’m ahead of the game, but I have a good reason. I think Lent is the great misunderstood season, and it is possible to approach it with joy–as perhaps you can tell from the image to the right. Today I’d like to share a short excerpt from my new book, Bring Lent to Life, and…I’m hosting my very first giveaway! So let me begin by asking: have you thought about “what you want to give up for Lent”? Read on!

The problem with simply giving something up is what I call the Mardi Gras syndrome: You’re sacrificing sweets for Lent, so the day before Ash Wednesday you have four bowls of ice cream. (There’s a reason it’s called “fat Tuesday.”) And on Easter Sunday you celebrate the end of the fast with two chocolate bunnies, a couple dozen handfuls of jelly beans, three slices of pie, and a cinnamon roll.

Kind of misses the point of the fast, don’t you think?

Fasting should change us in some way–move us to a place of greater holiness. It shouldn’t be something we do to torment ourselves for a while, only to revert to our former selves when it’s all over.

I believe it’s time to think beyond the ordinary Lenten penance. Why not give up a  specific sin instead?  In many ways, sin is a habit, a pattern of behavior. Selfishness, irritability, unkind words, gossip, gluttony–each of us struggles with the same sins again and again. Instead of choosing a specific item to forgo, why not choose one sin particularly troublesome to you and spend Lent focused on breaking its power over you?

This can be a great exercise for kids too, although they may need help, and that help must be given carefully. It’s important that we, the parents, not tell children what sins we think they need to address. True conversion happens from the inside out; it cannot be imposed by authority, however loving.

Penance, when heartfelt, is frequently a very private action and very difficult for people to share, even with those closest to them. Respect this. If a child is unwilling to share what he or she is giving up, that’s OK. As a parent, it’s tempting to feel that we must know everything our children are up to. But it’s also possible that a child (especially in the teen years) may want to be free of a habitual sin but is too afraid to admit it to his or her parents for fear of punishment. If your children are sincere enough to choose to work on something for Lent, rejoice, and allow them the freedom to make good choices of their own volition.

(Excerpted from Bring Lent to Life, with permission of Liguori Publications. Click here for more excerpts.)

Okay, folks, it’s time for a book giveaway! If you like what you see, leave a comment here between now and Feb. 5th and be entered to win a signed copy of Bring Lent to Life!

For extra entries, help me spread the word! Mention Bring Lent to Life on Twitter or Facebook (and mention me so I know about it!–Facebook: Kathleen M. Basi, Twitter: @kathleenmbasi). Better yet, refer people to this post. For each one you’ll get an additional entry. For every day you tweet or FB it, you get additional entries. On Feb. 6th my lovely little ones and I will do an old-fashioned, low-tech drawing and announce a winner.

Any questions? If not–go!

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  1. You mean you won’t use a random number generator for the drawing? ;-)

    • Call me old-fashioned. ;)

  2. My kids might be a bit old but I”m always looking for new ways to observe Lent

  3. I posted on FB but my wall wouldn’t link to your FB account :(

  4. I would love to read the full book, the snippet was enough to whet my appetite! Great job Kate!

  5. That’s a lot of food for thought on a Thursday morning!! I will certainly be sharing this with a lot of people.

  6. I’ve long thought that Lent was a time to change our hearts, not give up something we plan to go back to immediately!

  7. I realy like this approach to lent. When I was in high school (well over 20 yrs ago), I gave up soda for lent because I was often having 6 or more a day. When Easter rolled around and I was “able” to have it again, I took one sip and couldn’t finish it. To this day, I still can’t have more than 1 or 2 in a day, and that’s only if I am REALLY craving the sugar or there is literally NOTHING else to drink. Most often, I just drink water and am satisfied. In my case, giving up a specific item worked, but most often, it does NOT. I’ve tried taking up something new that is helpful to others, but haven’t approached Lent with the sin approach…I think I’ve got a few weeks (evidently, four) to pray about what I should focus on this year. Thanks for the great idea and I hope to read the book!

    • Once I gave up Pepsi for Lent, when I was working at Taco Bell. I switched to Mountain Dew because I loathed it. (Why didn’t I switch to water? Because I was in high school. I was stupid.) Midway through the season I suddenly found that I liked it, and I realized it was about caffeine, so I went to Sprite, which I never did learn to like. But I didn’t give up for good. Not sure I learned anything from that. :)

  8. Kate-
    Great work! I would love to have another Lenten book too!

  9. LOVE your approach to Lent! :)

  10. I enjoyed reading your excerpt and I looked at the link with more excerpts. Although I’m now a retired religious education director, I still enjoy seeing what’s out there for formation of children in the faith, either by parents or by catechists. Your books for parents fill a void. So many of today’s Catholic parents are clueless about Catholic practices such as you are describing. I will certainly pass the word as best I can.

  11. Many blessings Kate. I’m going to share what you wrote today with my Confirmation class.

    • Thanks, Patti.

      Kate

  12. I’d love to win!

    • Although (hush hush!) you’re going to get one anyway as a review copy, very soon! ;)

  13. yes please!!

  14. I’d like to enter, thanks!

  15. Just posted on FB!

    • Got it! Thanks!

  16. I always look forward to lent. Would love to win.:-)

  17. Only four weeks?! Oh, my. How time does fly. Your book looks lovely and sounds like some wonderful content. Lent is such a special time, always grateful for new ideas.

    Congratulations on such a lovely book!

  18. Sounds like a great book!

  19. I like the idea of giving up a sin. I don’t know if it will be easier to give up a sin or chocolate. I am going to try it this year and see how it goes.

    This post is very inspirational!

  20. I would love to win one of these books!

  21. I loved your Advent book, and I am very anxious to read this one as well. Thanks for being a great writer with excellent ideas :)

  22. Thhis book looks like fun!

  23. Looks like a great book….Sarah Kolath sent me over…glad she did! :)

    • Which counts as another entry for Sarah, I think, as well as one for you. Thanks for visiting! :)

  24. Looks interesting; enter me!

  25. Count me in!

  26. As a DRE this would be a great book to have to share with families.

  27. Have been looking to get your book – so this is a great opportunity! I also shared a link of this on my FB :D Would love to get some ideas on how to start sharing Lent with my 3yr old & my 8month old.

    • Awesome! Thanks. Double entry going on the list… :)

  28. Looks like an awesome book!

  29. I love this approach to Lent. I was thinking of doing another 40 bags in 40 days, but need something to do for us and not just the house.

  30. Ohhh, your Advent book was wonderful, and I bet this one is too!

  31. Over the past few years, I usually give up chips & dip which I rarely eat now. I have had health issues due to excess weight and have begun loosing weight. Giving up a sin sounds like a wonderful idea. Eating unhealthy has added to my health problems, so I plan on giving up eating unhealthy foods, snacks, soda, etc. Thank you.

    • You’ve just given me an idea for a blog post. Thanks, Barbara! :)

  32. hi there! I would love to win your book! :) Very inspired by the paragraph above (especially as we’re about to celebrate 1st Penance at my house..!)

  33. Today was my first visit to your website- I can tell I will become a frequent visitor. Love your ideas- thanks for sharing with the rest of us. Being a homeschool family I often struggle with being distracted with my work – during lent this year I hope to spend more “fun” time with the kids. We would love to read you book! God bless

  34. Have read through part of it already…and shared it with my parents. Love it and plan to be very prepared for Lent when it gets here :)

  35. My family and I have only been the church a little over 2 years. We would love to have this book so that we could learn more as a family.

  36. I’d like to enter. Thank you for the chance!

  37. Looks great!

    • Oooh, Elizabeth, haven’t “seen” you in quite a while! Hope things are going well. One of these days I’ll come see you again. :)

  38. This book looks great! What a wonderful resource for Lent.

  39. Please enter me in the giveaway

    • Ooh, just in time! Going to do it shortly. :)


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